As the time gets closer, my husband and I have been going over my final wishes so that he has a really good, clear understanding of what I do and do not want at the end. He assures me he will follow my wishes, and I believe that even though it will be incredibly difficult for him, that he will do it.
I've decided I don't want to be on life support if it's needed. I don't want to be kept alive by artificial means. I don't want my husband's and kids' last memories of me to be hooked up in a hospital bed. I want them to have the best possible last memories of me as they can.
I am sure you all have thought about your final wishes, too. It's such a hard thing to think about and talk about with our loved ones, but I think it's important so that our loved ones can do what we'd like if we become unable to make our own decisions.